It is most desirable for representatives of the family to meet beforehand with the parish life coordinator and if possible the parish liturgy/music director to discuss the funeral Mass and make appropriate suggestions for scripture readings and music.
Popular/secular music
Popular or secular songs, no matter how meaningful to the deceased (or the deceased’s family), are inappropriate and not permitted in the funeral Mass. The same applies to recorded music which should never be substituted for the active participation of the assembly. If the family requests a pre-recorded song (sacred or secular) as part of the funeral experience, it may be played at the wake provided it is respectful of the occasion.
Music Suggestions for Funerals
The following songs/hymns are found in the worship resource, Word & Song. They are especially appropriate for the funeral liturgy. Hymns are not limited to these choices; but this represents the most often requested music.
All Will Be Well Warner Amazing Grace Traditional Ave Maria Be Not Afraid Dufford Canticle of the Sun Eat This Bread Taize Eye Has Not Seen Haugen Here I Am Lord Schutte Holy God We Praise Thy Name How Great Thou Art Stuart K. Hine I Am the Bread of Life Toolan I Heart the Voice of Jesus Say Kingsfold I Know That My Redeemer Lives Duke Street Journey for Home Bolduc Just A Closer Walk Traditional Lord, When You Came to the Seashore On Eagle's Wings Joncas Peace is Flowing Landry Prayer of St. Francis Temple Precious Lord Take My Hand Allen/Dorsey Shepherd Me O God [Psalm 23] Haugen Soon and Very Soon The King of Love St. Columba
» Four hymns needed - Gathering, Presentation, Communion, Closing
» The service music that is always sung includes: » Psalm 23 between the readings unless something else is requested » Gospel Acclamation - Alleluia or Lenten Acclamation » Eucharistic Prayer acclamations - Holy, Mem. Acc., Amen » Lamb of God » Song of Farewell